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Miss Mary Mack

“The lady in black with silver buttons”

EnglishClapping rhymePublic domain

A hand-clapping rhyme that children in the United States have played for well over a hundred years. Two children face each other and clap a pattern in time with the words, a little faster each time round.

The rhyme

Miss Mary Mack, dressed in black,
Silver buttons on her back.
I love coffee, I love tea,
I love the boys, and the boys love me.
I'll tell ma when she comes home,
The boys won't leave the girls alone.
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What it means

Miss Mary Mack is dressed in black, with silver buttons down her back. The speaker says she loves coffee and tea, and that she loves the boys and the boys love her. Then comes a threat to tell mother when she gets home, because the boys won't leave the girls alone. It is more about rhythm and teasing than about a story.

How to play

Two children face each other. They clap their own hands, then each other's right hands, left hands and both hands, in a repeating pattern, keeping time with the words. Go a little faster each time round.
History

About this rhyme

Miss Mary Mack is one of the best-known hand-clapping games in the English-speaking world, and the scholar Kyra Gaunt has written about it as part of Black girls' play culture in the United States. The oldest print we found is not specifically African American, though: it is a short rhyme sent from West Chester, Pennsylvania, and printed in 1888 by the collector Henry Carrington Bolton, who does not say who the children were. The longer versions sung today, with many added verses, came later, and we do not show them. Stories that the rhyme began with a circus performer or with the warship Merrimack are unproven theories.

Sources & rights

  • The rhyme is anonymous and traditional. We show the text printed in Henry Carrington Bolton, The Counting-out Rhymes of Children (New York, 1888), no. 795, sent from West Chester, Pennsylvania; Bolton died in 1903. We read it in the scan of the book on the Internet Archive.
  • The meaning, the game instructions and the background text are written by us in our own words.
  • There is no recording or tune on this page: we do not claim any.

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